Are Men Breast Obsessed?

There is a common notion that men like big breasted women. Hence, the statement “The bigger a woman’s bust, the stronger a man’s lust.”

Photo Credit: Me (of course I made this myself)

While enjoying my grocery shopping, the other day, one big breasted woman passed by me. She must be a cup D or E. How I felt belittled seeing the huge endowment she possessed. Darn am only cup "tot"(ah never mind...hehehe.. )She flaunted her ample cleavage like they were hotcakes for sale. The men all over her went drool at the size of what they saw- a magnificent landscape on sight! There was stillness and silence as if the men were devoured by two very welcoming, definitely non life-threatening enchanted peaks! I was about to tell her “Move away! Hide your mountains before another’s eyes and eyelids stop blinking!” lol... (Though, I hoped they had no thoughts of grabbing what they saw..gosh!)

Are men really breast obsessed? Maybe “breast-obsessed” is too much of a word! One thing is certain though “men like the pleasant sight of breasts before them”. One (because) they don’t have them. Two, they accentuate the difference between men and women. Three, they trigger their sexual fantasies.

Breast size doesn’t really matter to most men. Ten thousands eyes may be cast on bigger boobies, but that doesn’t mean the smaller ones won’t get ten thousand tongue applause too...(oh don’t think naughty now...;))

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Ten Ways to Seduce Your Man

Men like to be seduced. So how do you seduce your man this valentines day? Don't go with the traditional lip pouting and beautiful eyes. Be imaginative. Use that seductive power in you that only a woman can possess!

Here are some ways to seduce your guy.


1. Send him a sexy mms picture of yourself in your best and sexiest night dress or just wear a white transparent shirt that goes in length just above your knees and don't forget to wear a red sexy lingerie.

2. Give him a gift this valentines and wrap it with your sexiest undies. Wheew this one's really sexy!

3. Give him a show! Perform a striptease. Men love the slow nakedness in the beat of a romantic music.

4. When he calls talk to him in your "sexiest night-you two alone" voice.

5. Whisper some dirty talk to him while he is talking with his boss! Just imagine how the concentration will shift from his boss to you.

6. After a shower, still wrapped in a towel, with no undies on, slowly bend over while he is at your back watching you. Make sure he sees your gorgeous booty.

7. Join him in a shower. Couples should do this every once in a while.

8. Just lie naked when he gets home. This is the easiest seductive move!

9. Accidentally but purposely touch his "private weapon" while you are doing some grocery shopping. A little public tease can add to the seduction!

10. Talk to him as if you are about to kiss him but not really. Just give him that impression and he'll go crazy wanting to get that lips of yours touch his.

Note: This is a repost. The same article may be found in my other blogs. May not be copied or used in any way without my permission.

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Should You Tell Him You Are Not A Virgin Anymore?

In today’s world, virginity is not so much of an issue. But in the Philippines especially in areas like where I come from, virginity is still a major concern. I think the society still puts high regards to a woman’s virginity. So the issue of telling your partner that you are not a virgin anymore is troubling quite a few. Should you tell him that you are not virgin? Should you confide to him that you’ve had your experience with sex? Or should you hold back confessing such a sensitive matter? But what if you are about to marry the guy you really want? Is it time to tell and narrate your sex-capades in all its fine points and splendor?

Let’s talk about this issue in the context of Philippine culture, because in other countries, without naming one, there’s a race at losing ones virginity, or well, if you are a virgin, you are the exception and not the general rule. And if you are a man, finding a virgin woman is like winning the lottery !

So anyway, to confess or not to confess? Personally, I think it’s better to not to confess to you boyfriend about your virginity status yet, and yes even if you are already engaged. There is always the risk of break-up especially prior to marriage. Revealing a very personal secret might be used by your partner against you. If you keep it a secret for the time being, then in case you break up your secret is still intact.

However, if you are already SERIOUSLY talking about marriage, HONESTY is very important. HONESTY maybe the cruelest at this instance because you can hurt your boyfriend and you fear rejection. But if you are to live the rest of your life with your man, you need to bring to the surface all your secrets, mistakes and shortcomings for him to endure and accept. Coming out to the open about your past is like redefining your relationship with your future husband. If he accepts you, and melts all your imperfections into one flame with a simple “I Love You”, you know it‘s love! You couldn't be wrong!

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How To Boost Your Romance

I was thinking of writing about what transpired in my life today. But I am kinda hesitant to do that. Am still having second thoughts of telling you guys about the very personal matters of my life, like what activities I indulge into now that I have deactivated my facebook account, or the very simple things in my daily existence, like what I ate for breakfast, or that I have a new pimple on my face and that I just got my period today... or that while I was updating this blog I hurt my knee (got a little scratch which does hurt)..etc.. But if I tell you these things( oops am already telling you..),would that interest you then? Well maybe not really. ..So for now I will have to write about articles that everyone can relate to and then perhaps when I get my own flock of followers then I'll start telling you all the nonsense stories of my life.

Anyhoo, let's get back to my personal tips on "How To Boost Your Romance". There are so many ways you can boost your romance life and get more close with your partner. Here are some of my tips. (this article is also found on my other blog.)

1. Relish the Small Stuff.

There is no need for an action to show gestures of love and sweetness. Why not bring your partner a bunch of flower or prepare a candle lit dinner at home, or just cuddle with each other outside during a starry starry night.

2. Be Selfish with your Time

Ignore your friends for the time being and have the weekend exclusive for just the two of you. Get disconnected with the outside world. Just think of you and your partner and no one and nothing else.

3. Argue

The little day to day frustrations that build up between the two of you helps. Little misunderstandings add to a more exciting relationship. Remember opposite polls attract. Just make sure you settle your misunderstandings before going to sleep.

4. Reminisce the Happy Past

Bringing back those happy memories can instantly boost your love for each other and give you instant joy. So why not talk about your past happy experiences as you cuddle each other on your house porch or at your garden.

5. Play

You don't have to spend much for a good date. Why not challenge your partner to a poker game-- not your ordinary poker game, but a sexy strip poker game. Or play any game and whoever loses must do a sexy dance and strip down.

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Do Men Like Sex More than Women?

This is a debatable topic, because I have the feeling that both genders would deny to like sex more the the other. Although there seems to be the stereotype that men are more active in sex and hence like sex more than women do. Men tend to be more open and vulgar when it comes to sex so that might explain to a certain extent why some believe men like sex more than women do. But personally, you might want to answer this question alone or with your partner or with your friends. Who knows, answers sometimes springs from discussions and arguments among friends.

Do men like sex more than women? I answer in the affirmative. This is because MOST men have higher sex drives than women. And how did I know this?? Nah? Never mind asking...(you've got it on the tip of your tongue..lol) And since I am not really authoritative when it comes to this, here's an excerpt of a statement made by Eva Ritvo, MD.

“We like to think of men having the higher sex drive -- it’s not always true, but more often, it is,”

FYI: Eva Ritvo is MD, vice chairman in the department of psychiatry and behavioral science at the Miller School of Medicine, University of Miami.

So do men like sex more than women? I'd like to think that way. Although accordingly, men think about sex every 7 seconds (right click and open to view) But I might be wrong. Unless there are studies or perhaps surveys conducted regarding this, we could all just guess .. I think. .

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Crazy *ex Facts

This is one of those articles that I don't want minors to read. However, this is not obscene at all but on the contrary it is very informative. Here are some crazy, weird, bizarre *ex facts or information I have gathered from sources online. Not all the information here are verified, so please exercise caution.

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Pump Your Guy's Libido: How?

How do you pump your guy's libido? I've answered this question before on my other blog. I'm just gonna add more to what I already know. I'm not really an expert.. (aww! What if tay and nay reads this.. whahahaha!)

Here's what you should do. Be honest. Honest hearts produce honest actions. If you can't be honest you will fail in your attempt. So learn to speak your mind to your partner. Be frank and straightforward. Tell you guy the hottest sex dream or hottest sex plan you've been thinking with him. Reveal your juicy imaginations with him. Don't skip the details. Be specific going into every minor detail of your wild sexual fantasies. Doing this can inspire your man to expose his fantasies too. And you can guess what follows next.

But please exercise caution. This is applicable only to lovers /partners who are very comfortable with each other already. Otherwise this might hurt you and work to your disadvantage. Your partner may find you flirty and pushy and a turn off.

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