Boost Your Romance in 5 Easy Steps

Few simple ways to spice up your romance life and get more close with your partner:

1. Relish the Small Stuff.
There is no need for an action to show gestures of love and sweetness. Why not bring your partner a bunch of flower or prepare a candle lit dinner at home, or just cuddle with each other outside during a starry starry night.

2. Be Selfish with your Time
Ignore your friends for the time being and have the weekend exclusive for just the two of you.

3. Argue
The little day to day frustrations that build up between the two of you helps. Little misunderstandings add to a more exciting relationship.

4. Reminisce the Happy Past
Bringing back those happy memories can instantly boost your love for each other and give you instant joy.

5. Play
You don't have to spend much for a good date. Why not challenge your partner to a poker game-- not your ordinary poker game, but a sexy strip poker game.

as originally published on my old blog

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How To Deal With A Broken Heart

Dealing with a broken heart is hard but no one has died because of it. Unless the depression lead to a cardiac arrest. But definitely, it is not easy to go through the pain, the suffering, the depression, the loneliness, the anger, brought about by a broken heart. So how do you deal with a broken heart? 

Different persons have different coping up levels. Others can handle a broken relationship pretty well, while some need a lot of help in going through this situation in their lives. There are different ways to deal with a broken heart or failed relationships and since people are different, their experiences are different you can't expect the same solution to be effective to every individual. In general however, you can deal with a broken heart using the following ways: 

1. Acceptance. Accept that the relationship failed. Accept the reality for it is by acceptance that you are able to move on.


2. Recognize . Recognize that you are only human and your partner is human. You have your own faults, your own lapses. Recognize that both of you had a share of the cause of the failure of your relationship. But don't put the blame entirely on your shoulder. It takes two to tango.

3. Act On the Feeling. Cry if you feel like crying. Mourn if you feel like mourning. Crying is one way of letting go of the pain. It's normal to cry.


4. Hold on to a quotation, a principle you believe in, or a famous line that can make you strong and help you stand up. "I will survive", "I'm over him", "People go through what I am going right now".

5. Diversion. Divert your feelings. Go visit a friend. Hang out with your buddies. Watch a movie. Kill the time with your favorite hobbies, with your favorite game. There are times when the best way to deal with a situation such as this is to stay away from it.

6. Confide and Share. Tell a friend, a family member about what you're going through. It feels good to know that someone is there to comfort you. Problems become less of a burden when it is shared.

 

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How To Kiss

Kiss is a sensuous activity with another person.

What is the proper way to kiss?

There is really no proper way to kiss. So if you have not experienced your first lips to lips kiss, don't fear. You may feel anxious during the first kiss but it's normal.

While there is no hard and fast rule as to how kissing should be performed, you can arm yourself with useful information to make your kissing experience more enjoyable.

1. Be kissable. This is of course the first thing to consider. Always use lipbalm or lip softener to keep your lips soft and inviting.

2. Keep your mouth clean and Fresh. Nobody wants to kiss a stinky mouth. Brush your teeth and tongue well, use some mouth freshner or carry some mints or menthol candies when you are going for a date.

3.Don't Hurry for A Kiss. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. You can kiss a person in public if you want but if it's the first kiss, its better to kiss when there's only the two of you , so if your kiss is rejected, you won't be so embarassed.

4. Kiss gently. Kisses can vary from quick pecks to sweet, to passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these. But any first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s. The trick is to just let your lips meet. A big NO- don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth.

5. Breathe. Gasping or turning blue in the middle of a kiss is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. Don't forget how to breath.

As originally published on my old blog

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How To Lose A Guy in 5 Days

This weapon is to be used by women only.

Sometimes there are guys who stick to us, won't give up the relationship despite the harsh truth that you're not compatible with each other, despite the apparent fact that your relationship is not working, despite the revealing truth that you have fallen out of love for him. And yet they won't leave your side. The sight of your partner is not pleasing at all. Seeing him brings no thrill, no excitement. You feel more pis*ed off than enjoy his company.

You've got to dump this guy!  Sorry for the harsh words but this is a matter of life and death! Okay, okay that’s too exaggerated :} But anyway, you can't lie to yourself and coerce your heart and mind to believe that you still love your man. Don't torture yourself. If a simple, one on one talk for a break up won't work there are some other ways, not typical and could be nasty. The choice is yours. Stick with your man and never find your real soul-mate or liberate yourself and do the following at your own risk:

1. Day one, your man picks you up for school or work.

Your move: Leave your house before he comes. Knowing that a partner did not wait for them can be disturbing for a lot of men.


2. Day two at the park.

Your move: Talk about a new hot guy you met. Yes you will create the feeling of insecurity and jealousy for him. But he should anticipate your move after the one on one talk between you and him.


3. Day three, a walk to the beach or a nearby resort.

Your hairy move: Wear a sleeveless or a spaghetti strap. The catch, don't pluck or shave the hair in your armpit. Have it sticking for him to see. It depends if you can bear the humiliation as other people will see you too. Don't forget the hair sticking out of your nose!


4. Day four, your man visits your house.

Your betty la fea move: Don't take a bath! Look ugly! Don't Brush your teeth! Show no affection! This one is nasty but it can work to at least push your man away. Who would want a stink partner? Much more the kiss! Gross! Your man won't even kiss you if he sees that piece of meat or cabbage stuck in between your front teeth, and the smell coming from your mouth will literally drive your guy away.

5. Day five, movie watching.

Your picking pop-corn move: While eating a pack of pop-corn with your head on his shoulders, pick up the pop-corn! I mean pick your nose! Gross! Let him see you as you do that. Just remember which finger you used in picking your nose and which one you use to put the pop-corn in your mouth.

Day 6,at your own initiative talk to your man again. There’s a huge chance he will create the space you so wanted and voluntarily!

Your call! Good luck! :)

As published on my old blog

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10 Ways to Seduce Your Man

Men like tobe seduced. So how do you seduce your man ? Don't go with the traditional lip pouting and beautiful eyes. Be imaginative. Use that seductive power in you that only a woman possess!

Here are some ways to seduce your guy:


1. Send him a sexy mms picture of yourself in your best and sexiest night dress or just wear a white transparent shirt that goes in length just above your knees and don't forget to wear a red sexy bikini.


2. Give him a gift this valentines and wrap it with your sexiest undies. Wheew this one's really sexy!

3. Give him a show! Perform a striptease. Men love the slow nakedness in the beat of a romantic music.

4. When he calls talk to him in your "sexiest night-you two alone" voice.

5. Whisper some dirty talk to him while he is talking with his boss! Just imagine how the concentration will shift from his boss to you.

6. After a shower, still wrapped in a towel, with no undies on, slowly bend over while he is at your back watching you. Make sure he sees your gorgeous booty.

7. Join him in a shower. Couples should do this every once in a while.

8. Just lie naked when he gets home. This is the easiest seductive move!

9. Accidentally but purposely touch his "private weapon" while you are doing some grocery shopping. A little public tease can add to the seduction!

10. Talk to him as if you are about to kiss him but not really. Just give him that impression and he'll go crazy wanting to get that lips of yours touch his.


As originally published on my old blog

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Long List of Various Terms of Endearment

For all romantics out there, here's a long list of various terms of endearment which I found at http://www.yaelf .com. The "M/F" in the list below stands for Male/Female, pertaining as to who can use the terms.

You don't have to use any of these terms of endearment. You can be creative and use terms you coin yourself. A more personalized and unique term of endearment is sweeter to the ears and definitely helps in creating a special connection between you and your partner. 

Terms

amoroso	M	- - - -
angel-face	F	- - - -
angel-puss	F	- - - -
angel	F	- - - -
apricot	B	- - - -
babe	F	- - - -
baby-cakes	F	- - - -
baby-doll	F	- - - -
baby-face	B	- - - -
baby-girl	F	- - - -
baby	B	- - - -
babykins	F	- - - -
beard-splitter	M	Caution
beau	M	- - - -
beautitful	B	- - - -
best-girl	F	- - - -
big-boy	M	- - - -
big-daddy-yum-yum	M	- - - -
big-love	M	- - - -
bird	F	- - - -
blossom	F	- - - -
boo	B	- - - -
boyfriend	M	- - - -
bubby	M	- - - -
bugsy	B	- - - -
bumpkin	M	- - - -
bunny	F	- - - -
buttercup	F	- - - -
button	F	- - - -
caballero	M	- - - -
casanova	M	- - - -
cavalier	M	- - - -
centerfold	F	- - - -
charlatan	M	- - - -
charming	M	- - - -
cherub	B	- - - -
chick	F	- - - -
chickabiddy	F	- - - -
clam-digger	M	Caution, explicitly suggestive
cloth-ears	M	- - - -
cocksman	M	Caution, explicity suggestive
con-Juan	M	- - - -
cowboy	M	- - - -
crumpet	F	- - - -
cuddle-bear	M	- - - -
cuddles	B	- - - -
cuddly-wuddly	B	- - - -
cupcake	F	- - - -
cute-chick	F	- - - -
cutesy-pie	F	- - - -
cutie-patootie	M	- - - -
cutie-pie	B	- - - -
cutie	B	- - - -
daddy-mack	M	- - - -
daddy	M	- - - -
dahlin	B	- - - -
darling	B	- - - -
dazzler	B	- - - -
dear-one	B	- - - -
dear	B	- - - -
dearie	B	- - - -
deary	B	- - - -
dish	F	- - - -
doll-baby	B	- - - -
doll-face	F	- - - -
doll	F	- - - -
dolly-boy	M	- - - -
doodle-bug	B	- - - -
dream-girl	F	- - - -
dream	B	- - - -
dreamboat	B	- - - -
duchess	F	- - - -
duck	F	- - - -
duckling	F	- - - -
ducks	B	- - - -
ducky	B	- - - -
dumpling	B	- - - -
esquire	M	- - - -
fellow	M	- - - -
fetcher	B	- - - -
flame	B	- - - -
fruitcake	B	Caution
gallant	M	- - - -
girl	F	- - - -
girlfriend	F	- - - -
glitter-bug	B	- - - -
goodlooker	B	- - - -
gorgeous	B	- - - -
gum-drop	B	- - - -
heart	B	- - - -
heartthrob	B	- - - -
hon	B	- - - -
honey-bun	B	- - - -
honey-bunch	B	- - - -
honey-bunny	B	- - - -
honey-pie	B	- - - -
honey-toast	B	- - - -
honey	B	- - - -
hot-stuff	B	- - - -
hottie	F	- - - -
hunk	M	- - - -
inamorato	M	- - - -
kitten	F	Caution
knight-in-shining-armor	M	- - - -
knockout	B	- - - -
kool-aid	M	- - - -
ladies-man	M	- - - -
lady-bug	F	- - - -
lady-killer	M	- - - -
lady-love	F	- - - -
lamb	B	- - - -
lambey-pie	B	- - - -
lambkin	B	- - - -
little-diddle	M	Caution
little-dove	F	- - - -
looker	B	- - - -
lothario	M	- - - -
love-bug	B	- - - -
love-maker	B	- - - -
love-muffin	F	- - - -
love	B	- - - -
lover-boy	M	- - - -
lover	B	- - - -
lovey-dovey	B	- - - -
magic-princess	F	- - - -
main-squeeze	F	- - - -
man	M	- - - -
muffin	F	- - - -
muggles	B	- - - -
munchkin	B	- - - -
muppet	B	- - - -
old-lady	F	Caution
old-man	M	Caution
patootie	B	- - - -
peach	B	- - - -
peaches	B	- - - -
pet	B	- - - -
petal	F	- - - -
petkins	B	- - - -
pinup-girl	F	- - - -
pinup	B	- - - -
pookie	B	- - - -
poopsy-woopsy	B	- - - -
poopsy	F	- - - -
poppet	F	- - - -
precious	B	- - - -
prince-charming	M	- - - -
prince	M	- - - -
princess	F	- - - -
puddin'	B	- - - -
puddlepooper	B	- - - -
pumpkin	B	- - - -
pussy-cakes	F	Caution
pussy-cat	F	- - - -
rag-beggar	B	Caution
raving-beauty	F	- - - -
romeo	M	- - - -
rumpy-diddle	M	Caution
schatzi	F	- - - -
schnooky lumps	M	- - - -
seducer	M	- - - -
sex-kitten	F	Caution
shabookadook	B	- - - -
sheik	M	- - - -
shmoopsie-poo	M	Caution
shnoodle-bum	B	- - - -
slick-chick	F	- - - -
snicker-doodle	B	- - - -
snookums	B	- - - -
snooky	B	- - - -
snuggle-bear	M	- - - -
snuggle-bunny	B	- - - -
snuggles	B	- - - -
sparkles	F	- - - -
sparky	M	- - - -
spunkie	M	- - - -
squidgy	F	- - - -
squire	M	- - - -
star-sweeper	M	- - - -
stud	M	- - - -
studley-do-right	M	- - - -
stunner	F	- - - -
sugar-booger	B	- - - -
sugar-britches	F	- - - -
sugar-bun	B	- - - -
sugar-daddy	M	- - - -
sugar-lips	F	- - - -
sugar-smacks	F	- - - -
sugar	B	- - - -
sunshine	B	- - - -
sweet-cheeks	F	- - - -
sweet-heart	B	- - - -
sweet-pea	B	- - - -
sweet-thing	B	- - - -
sweetie-pie	B	- - - -
sweetie	B	- - - -
sweetkins	B	- - - -
sweets	B	- - - -
teddy	M	- - - -
ten	F	- - - -
tootles	B	- - - -
tootsie-pie	F	- - - -
tootsie-wootsy	F	- - - -
tootsie	F	- - - -
twinkles	F	- - - -
winky-dink	M	- - - -
woman	F	- - - -
young-man

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6 Signs He Doesn't Love You

It's a good feeling to be in love and to be loved. However, let's admit the aching fact that your partner maybe faking his feelings all along.  He may tell you he loves you but the truth is he doesn't. Women get easily fooled oftentimes by men who are good talkers and good fakers

So here are some (6) Signs That He Doesn't Love You.

1. He lies often. Honesty in the best policy! A lying man is probably a lying lover too. If your partner lies too often intentionally, even on the little things he does, then you be careful. He might be lying about his real feelings too.

2. He is not affectionate. So he kisses you, hugs you tight, but if the midst, he's got eyes of a busy bee, wondering around, then it's time to look closer on his real intentions.

3. He doesn't keep his promises. If your partner loves to promise to you small, and great and mighty things, yet none has he fulfilled, what could be the reason why he is not keeping his promises. Think about that!

4. He ignores your feelings. If your partner ignores how you feels then by all means, it shows you don't matter to him. 

5. He compliments, adores, admires other girls (say your friends) in front of you. This can be insulting to you as a woman. And this could be a sign that his feelings for you are falling a part. So be more observant and take this into consideration.

6. He says he loves you but flirts with other girls! Definitely a red flag!

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5 Ideas for a Romantic Anniversary!

Your anniversary as sweethearts is fast approaching again! Now you worry about how to make it special and different from the previous anniversaries. You don't want to do the same celebration year after year or month after month. You need to be creative and romantic at the same time.

Here are some ideas to celebrate your anniversary.

1. Gifts. Send  (For Women)Send your partner a sexy lingerie with a message like "ready for battle" or the like prior to your anniversary day. He'll get the message without a doubt. (For men) send your partner a sexy brief or boxer shorts, with her sexy photo printed on it. This may sound corny, but you'll be surprise how this simple gesture can heat things up in bed of course.. 

2. Propose to your partner again! Reiterate the love you have for each other. But do so in a romantic way.  Book a romantic dinner in a restaurant. If you are bold enough, propose in front of the people in the restaurant. OR have a banner saying "will you marry me again" outside the restaurant.  Let children or senior citizens carry the banner.

3. Just married! Fetch your partner from work. Put "Just married" sign on the part of the car where it's visible to where your partner would be standing when you fetch her. Don't forget the flowers and chocolates as you approach her.  Now, drive her to heaven - I mean to the most romantic place in town.

4. Watch a movie. Compile your collection of videos like  your first date video, your wedding video, the video of her giving birth, picnic videos, family outing videos etc. Label the video with some fun title. Think well! Don't give her the idea that the video will be all about you as a couple or as a family.

5.  Forget the anniversary! Pretend as if you forget about your anniversary. Engage into a petty fight with your partner if you must. But prepare your anniversary surprise.  Fill the house with flowers. Spread rose petals from your front door to your room. Cover your bed with rose petals.  On the anniversary day, fetch your partner and give her a bouquet of flowers but don't look super happy.  Then show her the surprise as you reach home.. She'll be very surprise. Don't forget to say your proposal again "Will you marry me again for the next 100 years" or something like that.. (and buy her a new ring if you can afford).

That's it.. I hope you enjoy reading this.. Happy Valentine' Day everyone!

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10 Steps to the Perfect Kiss!

It's almost Valentine's Day! Love is in the air! Early now, every couple must prepare for this big day. Men must prepare roses and/or chocolates/ love letter/card for the women they love and worship. Women need to look their best too and prepare something for their Mr. Romeos. Don't let Mr. Romeo do the giving. Be thoughtful too, Juliets!

Valentines Day is above love and love and love and.. kisses.. Many lips will meet on this grand lovers day! So, let's discuss a few tips on how to make that Perfect Kiss!

Steps to the Perfect Kiss (Almost!)

1. Condition your lips. Take care of your lips prior to the big kissing day. Put lip balms if you must. No one would like to kiss a rough or dry lips.To all women, apply red or pink lipstick. These colors are sexy.

2. Keep your mouth clean.You know what I mean. And yes bring a mouthwash if necessary. Just don't let your partner see you bringing it as this might make him/her think that you are anticipating a kiss.

3.  Eye Contact.When you are about to give a kiss or is anticipating a kiss, always look your partner in the eyes. Doing so creates an intimate connection. It is also indicative of your sincerity,  your true emotions,  your true feelings for your partner.

4. Smile! A sweet sincere smile will further your true feelings. A smile communicates feelings and thoughts, words can't express! 

5. Get Closer.  Move closer to your partner. Don't move too fast as this can ruin the sweet romatnic atmosphere you are trying to create. Move in a comfortable position. Move as you talk, as you look your partner in the eye.

6. Touch.  For men, touch the face of the woman in front of you. Touch it slowly, lightly.

7. Position head. Make sure you are aligned with your partner. You need to consider your height gap. Ensure that when you start the kissing session, you don't miss any kiss. And of course you dont' want two colliding heads!

8.Relax your lips.

Make sure that your lips are relaxed. Your upper and lower lips must not be too distant from each other. Just tightly pressed together ready to kiss.

9. Close your eyes as you kiss.  This makes the kissing experience more passionate. Close your eyes as you feel each other's kiss. Feel that sensation running through your veins.

10.  Remember these:
When you are already kissing:

- Don't open your lips too wide nor too narrow.
- Control your saliva.
- Don't pull away too quickly.
- Enjoy the kiss
- When you pull away, look at each other in the eyes again and flash that sweet smile.
- Hug your partner warmly after the kiss, this will show that you enjoyed kissing him/her.

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Signs That A Guy is Flirting!

 Before we discuss some of the common signs of flirting exhibited by men, let us first define what flirting means. According to the dictionary, flirting means:

To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.

To deal playfully, triflingly, or superficially with: flirt with danger.

To move abruptly or jerkily.

How do men flirt?  Men often flirt by showing their masculinity. They tend to put emphasis on exuding their being "masculine, their being "macho", as they think it attracts the female species. So how do men flirt? What are the common signs that a guy is flirting with you? Take the following signs that  a guy, is flirting  with you, although the list does not hold true all the time.

Common Signs That a Guy is Flirting with you:

He...

* Arches his back.
* Sways his pelvis.
* Laughs loudly.
* Tugs his tie.
* Clasps back of his neck.
* Squares his shoulders.
* Puffs his chest.
* Stiffens his stance.
* Teases you in a friendly manner, such as by calling you names.

* Winks at you from a distance.
* Always compliments you.
* Smiles suggestively.
* Engages in direct eye contact.
* Casually touches you.

In the modern world with the advent of cellphones and social networking sites, he:

* texts/calls you often
* sends you suggestive messages
* always gets in touch with you on social networking sites by commenting on your every posts, every photo, every video (take this sign with extra caution as this is not conclusive, but you will know if a guy is flirting with you.)

Trust your intuition. Trust that woman instinct of yours which will give you that feel that a guy is flirting with you. A woman will always feel it. But remember to never jump into conclusions when it comes to matters like this. If you feel like a guy might like you, don't spread the word publicly. Keep it to yourself. Wait till he proposes or tells you upfront.  Otherwise you might end up embarrassed of your premature judgment and arrogance! :)

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50 Things Girls Wished Guys Knew

This is worth sharing. I don't know who made this article. But I agree to most of the things that are listed here.  If you like this article, feel free to share it to your friends via email or through twitter or facebook.  Also, don't forget to like my page on Facebook, I will appreciate it so much! :)

50 Things Girls Wished Guys Knew:

1. Don't freakin' tell us when you think other girls are hot.

2. Whenever possible during our favorite show, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, then don't excpect us to dress like Victoria Secret models.

4. Mark anniversaries on a calendar. That's a must.

5. There is NO such thing as TOO MUCH spooning.

6. We think about you all the time. And I mean ALL the time.

7. This is how we see it... you don't call = you don't care.

8. Which also means that if we don't call, take the hint.

9. We like you to be a little jealous, but overly-possessive is not necessary.

10. Being able to make us laugh is so much more important than how much you can bench press.

11. Return the favor...we massage, you massage...

12. Show us your romantic side every once in a while, we love it.

13. We're allowed to be late...you are not.

14. Eye contact is key.

15. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.

16. Laugh at our jokes.

17. Three words...honesty, honesty, honesty.

18. Girls can be groupies, guy groupies are stalkers...

19. Tell us we're gorgeous or beautiful instead of hot or sexy.

20. Do not start with us...you will not win.

21. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? ...Didn't think so.

22. If you ask nicely, we usually answer the same way.

23. We will never have enough clothes or shoes.

24. We have an excuse to act bitchy, at least once a month.

25. Open the door for us no matter where we are... even at our house or getting into a car.

26. We LOVE surprises!

27. We like to be kissed softly, not with an iron tongue.

28. Pay attention to the little things we do, because they mean the most.

29. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs but.....NEVER whitey-tighties!

30. Clean your room before we come over.

31. Always brush your teeth before you see us...a clean mouth and white teeth are a necessity

32. Love u, love you, luv u and love ya are totally different than I Love You.

33. Even though you are sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we have.

34. Don't ask us to do things that we aren't ready for.

35. Don't act jerkish and ignore us around your friends.

36. Sometimes NO! really means NO!

37. "Wife Beaters" are not always an adequate form of fashion.

38. Do not bring up an ex-girlfriend, unless we ask.

39. Sensitive guys are great, but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.

40. Don't let ex-girlfriends cause drama, relationships are stressful enough.

41. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.

42. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.

43. "Fat Chicks" have feelings too.

44. Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling and nasty looks from us all add up to... YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG!

45. The excuse "I can't dance" is unacceptable...we'll appreciate the simple fact that you're trying.

46. Just because a girl doesn't pick up on the first ring, doesn't mean she's not waiting by the phone.

47. You don't have to spend a lot if it means a lot.

48. Don't say you love me if you don't mean it.

49. Do not lie to us...we will catch you, trust me.

50. When the girls get together, we talk about everything...meaning my best friend knows everything about you!

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6 Ways to Get Your Ex Back

How to get your ex back? This sounds a tough question for everyone dealing with a broken relationship. Sometimes, relationships that have ended meant to end for good, while some relationships need a second chance or so and must be fought for to survive. Every relationship requires effort. But let us get to the meat of the 6 ways to get your ex back.

1. Wait and Relax. After a break up, don't rush into things. Give your ex a time to ponder things.  Give him some space. Give your ex a time to realize life "without you". And give yourself a time to cry if you must and think over things that transpired too.

2.  Control your emotions.  Don't call your ex and cry as if you are on the verge of committing suicide due to break up. This is emotional manipulation. Your ex may think you can't handle your emotions well and that you are manipulating him. This will fend him away.  Worst thing you want is a reconciliation with your ex because of manipulation.

3. Admit your mistakes and be a better you. It takes two to tango. Your ex may have faults of his own and so do you. Admit your mistakes that contributed to the break up and be a better you. Show to your ex that you are better now.  How? Your ex and you have common friends that can spread the word of how much your changed .

4. Show that you are always there for your ex. This is significant, as this shows you still care for him as a lover and as a friend. You and your ex have invested emotionally. More often , he will likely ask for your support in the form of advice or opinion on certain matters.

5. Look your best.  Not everything about you is likable to your ex. Let's admit that. Not all your physical attributes or how you dress or how you put your make up on is desirable for your ex. Now focus on these things. Learn to stay beautiful according to his standards. You are doing this to attract him. This is superficial of course. But you see the point, it will help you catch his attention plus it  will boost your confidence and self esteem. Now proceed to step 6.

6. Meet your ex on a friendly date. Don't appear emotionally disturbed as this will push your ex away. Remember ways 1 to 5. Don't be demanding! Don't make any verbal attempt at getting back on him yet. Remember to leave a fresh, better impression on your ex.

Your ex may or may not call you the soonest. But be patient. He will call you eventually if he still loves you. Instead of you making the obvious outward effort of getting back with him, he might just do that himself. However, take note that there is still a chance that he will not call you back and get back to you. But be strong. You can't always have all you desire in life. Look at life at a different perspective. Be positive and move on if you must!

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Meaning of Kisses: Know What a Kiss Means!

A kiss is a gesture of our affection to another person. But when it comes to the opposite sex, what does a kiss really mean? What does a kiss on the hand mean? How about a kiss on the cheek? A kiss on the neck? And of course a kiss on the lips? Ever wondered?

Here are the answers to your sexylicious inquiries- The Meaning of Kisses:

Kiss on the hand

- I adore you.

Kiss on the cheek

- I just want to be friends.

Kiss on the neck

- I want you.

Kiss on the lips

- I love you.

Kiss on the ears

- Let's have some fun.

Kiss on the nose

- Let's get silly.

Kiss anywhere else

- You're the best.

Kiss on the forehead
- I care for you! (akin to what parents do to their children)


An average person spends spends two weeks of their life kissing! That's a lot of kissing! :)

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9 Romantic Date Ideas for Valentines Day

Here are some romantic date ideas for valentines day and for any day of the year. These romantic date ideas are not only fun but cheap as well, just in case Mr. Lover is tight on the budget.

1. Watch Movies together at home, at local theatre and even at school. Watching movies together is an expensive yet very effective way to be with your partner. You can hold hands and cuddle as you watch, preferably romantic movies or comedy films.

2. Drink coffee/milk early morning after an engaging jogging or workout.  Coffee/milk is inexpensive. You can try this dating idea once in a while and avoid the expensive dinners at restaurants. Just choose a good location, preferably one where you have a good view of the scenery around you.

3. Eat Ice Cream or Desert together. Ice cream has always been a favorite of many. Why not invite your partner for an ice cream treat. Don't forget to give her roses, so she won't forget that day was special.

4. Play Games together. Inexpensive but very effective. You can choose indoor or outdoor games. Play scrabble together and the loser gets to strip as a consequence. Or play frisbee together under the sun.Give  a sexy consequence to the loser.

5. Go shopping! Be it window shopping. Spend the day together at the mall.  Feed your eyes with fancy/funny/weird things you can find at the mall, just for fun's sake. Don't forget to take photos.

6. Go hiking/biking together. Invite your partner for a morning or afternoon hiking/biking. You'll be surprised at the many things you can discuss as you have fun.

7. Go star gazing. This is very romantic.

8. Travel together or go joyriding!

9. Beach bums! Go head over to the beach. Hold hands as you walk in the sand. Play with the tides too. This can be very fun.

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40 Things Men Hate About Women!

Ouch!   The 40 Things Men hate about the women! 40 is a long list but it can still go longer. lol.. My favorites among the list are numbers 3, 6, 9, 17, 21, 30, 35.  You can also add to the list if you want. The list by the way is one I got from unknown source. I have the printed copy and decided to blog about it because I feel most of these are true.

40 Things Men Hate About Women:

1. Leaving the toilet seat down
2. Phoning or texting you every 10 minutes
3. Never being ready on time when going out
4. Spending too much time in the bathroom
5. Being a bad cook
6. On the phone to girl friends for hours after just having spent the day with them.
7. Not letting you spend time with their mates
8. Only wanting to watch Soaps and Reality shows on TV
9. On a permanent diet and yet they’re still fat
10. Orange faces and white necks
11. Moaning when you look innocently at other women when you are out together. You looked at a tree too but she didn’t complain about that!
12. Keeping tabs on how much you have had to drink when you are out together.
13. Nagging about you not helping around the house.
14. Complaining that you didn’t do a good enough job when you tried to help out around the house
15. Always making you take out the rubbish and do all the dirty jobs.
16. Leaving female items on your bedside cabinet.
17. Having a headache when you indicate you want to have sex.
18. She never appreciates the gifts you get her. It’s always the wrong size.
19. Telling you what to buy her rather than letting you make it a surprise.
20. Taking your hard earned cash and spending it on make-up
21. Moaning about how fast you drive.
22. Asking when you are coming home just so they can know how long before they can nag you in person.
23. Expecting you to notice every change she makes to herself even though it was a while since you saw her naked and that’s really the only look you’re interested in.
24. She is starting to look more and more like her mum.
25. Wearing multiple layers to bed.
26. PMT.
27. She spends her day off lounging around the house in an old tea-stained dressing gown.
28. She reads her mates  texts while you’re having s*x.
29. Snooping through your wallet, phone and Facebook account. They don’t stop till they find something incriminating,,,however minor.
30. Spending too much time on Facebook.
31. Turning on the tears when they’re in the wrong to get you to forgive them.
32. Badmouthing you to all their mates when you have a row.
33. Wanting to cuddle after s*x.
34. Wanting you to let her squeeze your blackheads.
35. Saying she’ll be ready in 5 mins and then being ready in 50.
36. Expecting you to pay when you go out.
37. Choosing your clothes and telling you what to wear.
38. Tidying your private things (pics of old girlfriends) into the bin without telling you.
39. Lipsticks marks on your mug.
40. Trying to get you to wear her undies when having s*x. (lol)
41. Not letting you wear her undies when having s*x.

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