Friday, January 29, 2010

Love Moves: Boy or Girl?

I think either boy or girl can do the first move. Traditionally and as part of our customary ways, it has always been the boys who do the first move. Boys have the advantage of wooing the girls they like. They have the license to verbalize and flatter the hearts of their adored, loved and highly thought of lass. While the girls, since time immemorial have zipped their lips and mastered the art of waiting for the lads of their dreams to notice them. And if go unnoticed, the girls forever hold their peace. What a pity!!!

I am a girl too and I find it unfair to give this engaging opportunity to express love to the opposite sex only. We are all on equal grounds, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. Isn’t it? Come on. There’s nothing wrong with the old ways but there’s nothing wrong with change either. If boys can woo, girls can woo too. If boys can do, girls can do too. What’s the difference, the curve in a girls’ body and the muscles in the boys’. Does physique really matter? The idea of expressing love first on the girl’s part does not lower her stature nor makes her cheap. Rather it is a paradigm of being true to oneself and an exemplar of a mortal’s quest for love.

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4 comments

Anonymous
January 29, 2010 at 6:12 PM delete

what's wrong with girls/women expressing their love to men? It's perfectly fine.. Go girls! dili kay boys na lang pirme!

laagan

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January 29, 2010 at 7:00 PM delete

@laagan, heheheh.. good that we agree on this one! Bitaw unfair if cge na lang boys pirme oi.. Faet! Pwede man pud girls ba..

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Anonymous
January 30, 2010 at 5:49 AM delete

You are saying girls must not be looked down for advancing the first move to the men they like. You are absolutely right!

Love when felt must be expressed. Both men and women have the right to do this. hey, i'd forget about rules or norms society imposes. Act on your feelings or suffer regrets at the end.

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Anonymous
January 30, 2010 at 6:14 AM delete

kong kaya ng mga lalake kaya din ng mga babae... pareho lang naman tau ng libog ah.. babae at lalake nalilibogan din... kaya walang problema kong ang babae cya ang mauna kong manligaw..... ok ngaun sa mga lalake dina kami mahihirapan pa... ahhahhahahahahhaha... pabor kong baga... ahhahha

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